Expect to Get! A Fail Safe Formula

In school we learn a variety of math formulas.expectations begin to create an excitement which
We learn how to convert temperatures fromleads me to start running. Even when I realize
Fahrenheit to Celsius; we learn how to calculatehow out of shape I am, my expectation and
the area of a triangle and much more. Thebelief pushes me to run a little more every
beauty of these formulas is the certainty theyday.Along with my running, I do some other
provide. We know that if we know the formulathings - I ask other runners about their
and have the correct inputs, we can compute thepreparation plans. I pick up a book at the store or
correct answer. Presumably, as adults we arelibrary to learn more about running technique. I
using these formulas to solve a problem andask the knowledgeable sales person in the store
move us towards something we desire.People askabout the proper shoes to buy.Expectations and
me about unleashing their potential - how to do it,belief fueled action, and now the action is
what steps to take and more. Because of thisreinforcing the belief as well. My running
recurring and important question I have workedexpectation has snowballed! I build a plan to
to distill part of the answer into a formula. Thiscompete in a specific 10K race and then complete
formula will help us because if we can identify theit.At the start of this process, when I put this
inputs and use the formula correctly, we canexpectation into my mind, my body wasn't
improve our performance, and provide greatercapable of making the 10K - maybe it wasn't
service to others, as we reach towards ourcapable of making it to the mailbox! But the
potential.The InputsThe inputs to this formulapotential was there latent waiting to be unleashed.
are:Expectations - Those things we expect ofI unleashed the potential by having positive
ourselves.Beliefs - What we believe to be trueexpectations which created belief which fueled
about ourselves, our skills, abilities and potential;action which led to me crossing the finish line of
and our world.Actions - the behaviors we exhibitthe 10K race. EBA=R.Be Aware ...It is important to
and the things we do.Reality - the results ornote that this formula works for any expectation
endpoint of the efforts.The FormulaThe formula- positive and uplifting, or negative and cynical, so
goes like this: Expectations create beliefs. Beliefsbe careful what you expect!It is equally important
create actions. Actions create realities.Perhaps youto recognize that you can use the formula to help
will want to remember this formula as: EBA=RAsothers unleash their potential as well. Your positive
written, it looks like it is a formula that usesexpectations and encouragement of them will help
multiplication. In a way it does - if you have agenerate their own expectations, which allow the
zero in any of the first three inputs, there will beformula to work.In ClosingIf we fervently expect
no change to your reality (or results). However assomething will happen, then we develop a belief, a
we all learned in math class, in multiplication youtrue expectancy about that event or
can complete the formula by multiplying thecircumstance. When we believe, we will take
factors in any order. In our formula it all startsaction on those beliefs. And the right action, as
with expectations, in other words, thewe all know is required to create new results.
multiplication must be done in order to makeEBA=R.Use this formula for yourself. Set your
sense.Anything Else?Before I go any further, letexpectations higher! Reinforce those expectations
me say that this formula assumes a desire toby thinking about them regularly. If you couple
reach for new results - without desire to tap intothat with true belief, you are on your way.Why
or discover our potential the formula doesn't evennot start today?Kevin is Chief Potential Officer of
apply.But I know, because you are reading thisThe Kevin Eikenberry Group ( a learning consulting
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